Drama…
September 25, 2008
Life Drama vs. Dramatic Life…
ok, so here is the kunundrum…life that has become one big drama after another that is perpetrated by the one living it; verses having a life that is for the most part, normal by most standards with the occasional dramatic situation coloring one’s experience.
I personally prefer the latter; see, it to me adds a lil bit of spice to what would normally be somewhat plain and unexciting. For some, however, seem to need the draw and pull of something a lil more over-exaggerated and over-the-top to feel alive and thriving. I haven’t been able to figure out what the common thread is for those people; but I hope to soon.
So first, lets look to the first scenario shall we; namely “Life Drama“. When you find that your life has become one big drama after the other; why not step back a lil and examine why it has? Maybe you can figure out what you can do to lessen the frequency with which it tends to happen, or just not give certain situations as much power or influence as they seem to have over your overall life. Decide to let the seemingly littler things go quicker so that they don’t take on a life of their own and overshadow your life as a whole. This would be my recommendation to those who have a constant roll of drama after drama on a daily basis and feel empty when one isn’t in play at the moment.
Now, we’ll gander into the second one, namely “Dramatic Life“. This is the one I personally prefer. See, this one allows most to have the life that most prefer, but adds that lil element that pushes us to occasionally step out of our personal comfort zone, experience something new, learn from it, and grow from it and then let us step back into our normal path with a lil extra something that we didn’t have before so that when we continue down our life path, we have more parameters than before to help us make wiser decisions and also to help others in similar situations. A way, so-to-speak, to discard the ‘blinders’ and walk around with total sight. To me, that sounds much better then living in a self-contained, overly-dramatic soap-opera lifestyle that drags us in every chance it gets and doesn’t allow us to see what’s goin’ on around us as much as we should or would want to if we were to be able to even have a taste of that experience for ourselves.
So…you all tell me; which would you rather have? Life Drama, or a Dramatic Life… you choose; comment on the post and tell me what you think ok! Ciao for now!
Just my two cents…now go and make it into nickels and dimes of your own!



December 16, 2008 at 5:25 am
Upon reading your article on dramatic life and life drama; i was suprised how much it spoke to me not only beinga drama student and constantly having people live in the life drama state makes me see thjat many are not happy when they are not centre of a drama or involved with anothers drama. I realised that stepping out of our comfort zone occasionally makes us happier and stronger and others dont like because its seems tjhat person is reserved and in other cases with drawn. I think your articles speaks sense and is saying what others are thinking.