Life Drama vs. Dramatic Life…

ok, so here is the kunundrum…life that has become one big drama after another that is perpetrated by the one living it; verses having a life that is for the most part, normal by most standards with the occasional dramatic situation coloring one’s experience.

I personally prefer the latter; see, it to me adds a lil bit of spice to what would normally be somewhat plain and unexciting.  For some, however, seem to need the draw and pull of something a lil more over-exaggerated and over-the-top to feel alive and thriving.  I haven’t been able to figure out what the common thread is for those people; but I hope to soon.

So first, lets look to the first scenario shall we; namely “Life Drama“.  When you find that your life has become one big drama after the other; why not step back a lil and examine why it has?  Maybe you can figure out what you can do to lessen the frequency with which it tends to happen, or just not give certain situations as much power or influence as they seem to have over your overall life.  Decide to let the seemingly littler things go quicker so that they don’t take on a life of their own and overshadow your life as a whole.  This would be my recommendation to those who have a constant roll of drama after drama on a daily basis and feel empty when one isn’t in play at the moment.

Now, we’ll gander into the second one, namely “Dramatic Life“. This is the one I personally prefer.  See, this one allows most to have the life that most prefer, but adds that lil element that pushes us to occasionally step out of our personal comfort zone, experience something new, learn from it, and grow from it and then let us step back into our normal path with a lil extra something that we didn’t have before so that when we continue down our life path, we have more parameters than before to help us make wiser decisions and also to help others in similar situations.  A way, so-to-speak, to discard the ‘blinders’ and walk around with total sight.  To me, that sounds much better then living in a self-contained, overly-dramatic soap-opera lifestyle that drags us in every chance it gets and doesn’t allow us to see what’s goin’ on around us as much as we should or would want to if we were to be able to even have a taste of that experience for ourselves.

So…you all tell me; which would you rather have?  Life Drama, or a Dramatic Life… you choose; comment on the post and tell me what you think ok! Ciao for now!

Just my two cents…now go and make it into nickels and dimes of your own!

So, i’m gonna attempt to catch up to what has been goin on as of late.  Well, since I’ve been back from my sisters house in Nevada, and moving her and her family to Scio, OR; I’ve been one busy gal [lol].  One of the more enjoyable things I’ve been doing is volunteering in my church’s Boy Scout Pack and Troop by being a Merit Badge Counselor for 15 Merit Badges!  And a residual thing that has sprung from that volunteering is opening up an account with http://www.classb.com to design some troop and pack and so forth tee-shirts for fun mostly; but now, I have almost 100 shirts…when one or two ideas come to me, it is usually followed by a dozen or so more, most of the time, more.

Something else that I’ve been busy with is helping a friend I chat with online since last winter who is from Missouri.  We usually talk about things that I won’t mention in this venue, but needless to say, it is talked about in more a semi-clinical point of view then discussed in a cras and disgusting manner; so put your eyes back in your head and close your mouths everyone ok…now, something else I’ve been doing while chatting with her is helping her face some of her major demons; those things which haunt her and torment her daily.  She is showing more proactive interest in the church, however, I don’t wish to push her for I know she will pull away if I do for something as important as this.  According to her, she has actually been thinking about this for some time now; but she never really had any one whom she felt this comfortable with while talking about such things, and now she does.  So I’m glad that she does feel comfortable discussing these things with me, so I can help her in what ever way that I can.  She has many concernes and fears and latent demons that she is trying to exorcise from her psyche, but it is a long process.  She started going to therapy to discuss some nerve damage in  her hand and how it affected her writing music and playing the guitar; something she desperately loves, but because of the nerve damage, is unable to really and truly enjoy it currently, for she can barely play the fretboard fingerings right now.  So, in our last conversation, I mentioned that she should seek after other avenues to regain back the feeling in her hand so that playing the music she loves and prefers, can once again be fully enjoyed to her hearts content!  She still seems resistent, but I’m still hopeful that she’ll come around.  Time will only tell.  This lovely woman I call sister and friend is so very talented, that I can only hope that she finds it within her to have some faith in the miracle she seeks to be able to play once again and to dazzle all who hear her music!

Love ya hon, stay strong!

Hello everyone, here are a few links to some of my T-shirt designs I’ve been creating; I hope you will enjoy viewing them!!